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Weekend markets in full swing, mostly farm produce and flowers, with a sprinkling of ceramics and other wares. A couple of people were astonished that I had brought Bondi from Australia: “Did you bring him with the sheep?”.
“????… Oh you mean ship!”

Bondi sheltered from the sun. Over a lunchtime fish under an outdoor table by the river, while I talked to a couple of London-resident Danes enjoying a short break here. One of them had lived in Coogee for a period, which is where my parents were living when I was born, and the earliest beach photos of me come from there.

Memories of a long-ago Coogee.

Stari Trg (Old Square)

Ljubljana’s old town centre is very compact and easy to get around. Local architect and urban planner Jože PleÄ?nik essentially made the city layout a work of art. He also made major contributions to the streetscapes of Vienna and Prague.

South of the Three Bridges area the river is lined with cafes and restaurants, busy day and night. Well, not too late at night - cafes were starting to close down by 11pm on a Saturday night. It’s all so civilized here, that one might think that a punchup in the street would be more likely between curia in the Città del Vaticano - and probably over who gets included in this year’s Calendario Romano.

The shopping opportunities here are very good: the big high street names are mostly left to a new shopping mall outside of the old town. Instead there are some more interesting places like Piranske Soline. From the outside I wasn’t sure what the store was for, and even after a minute inside I wasn’t any the wiser and then I cracked and asked the manager. “Salt! From the Salina Nature Park” [in the southwest of Slovenia]….and many accessories. I bought some dark chocolate laced with salt flowers which was a delicious bittersweet combination.

I bought a little book of Slovene recipes, for when I finally get back into a house again and have time to slav over a hot stove. Clothing stores are quite good - all men dress like metrosexuals or bears, depending on whether they came of age under Tito or Kylie.

Under the fountain, and behind the hill.

Enjd Bljton’s Famous Fjve - where’s Tjmmj?

I think that working as a translator or voice-over artiste in these small language markets must be a lucrative career. On a lazy evening I watched some Croatian television, one channel being subtitled episodes of Nip/Tuck, Cold Case etc. Other channels had US shows dubbed into Croatian, and I’m sure I caught an Australian advertisment with dialogue in English and Croatian text. All of Europe is emblazoned with English text: commercial slogans and brand-names, sometimes more like manglish, as in the case of a coffee mug that I saw refer to “your childtime” rather than “childhood”. TV in Croatia and Slovenia has a mix of domestic, English and German content, with the odd bit of French or Italian. So, the spoken English here tends to be superior to Italy or Spain where everything is dubbed and so people don’t get a sense of the sound of the language except perhaps in sung form, since English-language pop/rock is ubiquitous. Evenso, on some Italian dancing and talent programs, most of the music was English-language songs but sung with the accents on the wrong words/syllables. This is almost like having watching out-of-sync dialogue in a movie.

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A touch misanthropic, yes, but dour?

Your Score:


36% Dominant, 45% Extroverted, 72% Trustworthy

Responsible. Respectable. Dour. That’s not shit coming out of your ass–it’s honor. You are clearly of House Stark.

You are a submissive personality, meaning that you are more than willing to relinquish control to someone more qualified; you will unflinchingly accept any responsibility that is thrust upon you, including servitude. Unfortunately for you, your unending patience accommodating nature often make people look to you for a leader. In essence, you are the perfect leader: someone who has no desire to lead, yet is substantially well-qualified to do it.

You are also introverted, which means that people sometimes have difficulty understanding your thought process. Your dependable nature makes you predictable, but you’ve probably got all sorts of emotional dysfunctions when it comes to more intimate relationships. There are very few people whom you trust unwaveringly, and you’re not the type to confide in other people. So cold, so aloof–so Stark.

Finally, you are trustworthy–the very definition of the word. All secrets are safe with you. All of your vows are unbreakable. True to your name, you world is a stark place; there is black, and there is white. Your rigidity tends to undercut your overall value as a friend and ally. Honesty such as yours is hard to come by, which is easy to understand when you consider how easily manipulated you are by less decent individuals. Essentially, you’re the nice guy, and you’ll always finish last.

Representative characters include: Eddard Stark, Jon Snow, and Sansa Stark

Similar Houses: Frey, Lannister and Tully

Opposite House: Baratheon

When playing the game of thrones, you play it with one sword in your hand and another up your ass.

Link: The Song of Ice and Fire House Test written by Geeky_Stripper on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the Dating Persona Test

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New Orleans is not geeky, admittedly, but people in the Big Easy like eating good food. Besides, I would even dare to say that New Orleansians seem to take their time, and have a longer lunch break than people living in the real rush hour, high speech speed cities on the East or on the West Coast. Of course, not every day, but as a tendency based on anecdotal evidence, I would say longer lunch hours apply here. Also, things happen slower, which has its downsides, but that’s absolutely an advantage when it comes to food, networking over food, and enjoying all the appreciation surrounding meals. Eating a good meal needs at least a 60 minute undisturbed slot from the moment the plate lands on your table till the final napkin swipes in my estimate.

Noonhat is building on this experience: we like eating food in general, we also like having someone else to share our lunch with (lots of statistics apply here, especially for elderly people), so why not just sign up and leave a message to the world where you are going to have some seafood gumbo, ratatouille, jambalaya, chickpea hummous etc. on that very day. Sharing lunchtime will not shake the world it by its roots, says the message, but “we start small, really really small.”
You specify the location (Google maps), the time and give your email, plus freeze dating urges as it is not meant to be dating site - at least according to Brian Dorsey from Noonhat. I especially like the “How flexible are you on location?” function which adds a radius to your chosen restaurant.
As of the middle of August, the site is also open to all of North America, and it has generated lunches in SF, LA, Houston, and of course in the hometown, Seattle. It is a pity though that the site does not match your IP address yet. So the default is Seattle metro.

So let’s see: I will make a suggestion for 12:30 Sept 8, Saturday at St James Cheese Company, plus a radius. feel free to join me, I would gladly meet new people here.

If you are familiar with meetup.com, you could argue that such a lunch meetup group could easily be organized on meetup.com, but here the features are totally different. You don’t have a profile, you will be notified via email who has joined your lunch (rather than every event taking place in the meetup group), and you have the map radius function too. Well, at least for now. The site will definitely change over time based on user experience.

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This whole Ignite Seattle series thing comes to me through Attila’s IT/BT geek blog, and thanks, Deepak for pointing me to the video series hosted on BlipTV.

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