When a Love relation first begun, it begun with Admire till craziness, In this time, Everyone of us see his lover with his heart only, and our hearts has no eyes. It has nothing but feelings. So, You don’t see anything in your lover but a beautiful picture of him you’ve drawn with your imagination. You believed that you’ve finally found everything you’ve been searching for in your lover and every thing you’ve dreamt about is in him. Furthermore, How he is beautiful and how he is the most sweet thing in the world, your heart is flying on account of happiness, and sing for him, call him, and wants to say to the whole world “This is My Love, He is my lover”, and dance when you saw him.
And you continue in this mood, and everyday when you’re together your love grow, and you become crazy for him, Love is so sweet in that time, but as usual the life will never continue in that sweet mood. and for sure a hard time will come when you face the first problem with your lover because you’re ready to ignore anybody’s mistakes but your lover, you don’t even believe that he can do any mistake, so you become very confused, and this is ordinary because he is so precious to you, and you love him so much, and you can’t even accept that he is a human and do mistakes, like you also do, human. Therefore, why you make yourself very angry in that time?, and if you became nervous with your lover, you’ll fall in endless troubles. Because nervousness and the loud sound haven’t solved any problem. The real problem is that you don’t really understand each other, In that time you believe that you’re right, and he is wrong, and if you asked any one of your friends will say the same, and also your lover believes he is right and his friends also thinks the same.
But please, tell me … Why you’re thinking now with your mind? Have you forgotten that you has seen him only with your heart not your mind, you’re the one who persuade yourself that he can’t do mistakes, ofcourse, we all do mistakes, and you’re the one who put him in the sky, although he lives here with us on the earth, and because you loved him so much, you became so loyal to him and seen him the whole world.
Whatever your lover is so sweet, and you’ll never find anyone like him, you must know that he is a human, so whatever you find him kind and do what you want, you must know that he is a human and he has his personality. and whatever you find him polite and love you, you must know that he will do some mistakes someday. and whatever you think that you’re right, and he is wrong, you must know that he don’t think that and he thinks that he is right and you’re wrong. and whatever you believe that you both have closed personalities, you must know that there’s no two people on this planet have the same personalities so, you must accept that you’re different from each other . and whatever you love him and all what you want to make him better, you must deal with him from his concept and his feelings and his heart even if you believe that your concept is the right one. This is a must to be able to reach solutions for your problem.
All what i want to say is “Whatever you think that he is the most beautiful, sweet and kind person ever, you must know that he is NOT an angel, Angels are in the sky not on our planet”

May 6, 2008
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