The Dating Rituals Of Modern Muslims Explained |
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 May 6, 2008 |
by Chris Channing
Muslims in Islamic countries are very strict on the relationships that younger generations have with one another. Essentially- dating in the western sense if forbidden. But there are a few alternatives to the strict Muslim practices that have given youth the ability to network socially without breaking any Muslim rules or laws.
Marriage is commonly characterized with the term “love” in most civilizations. In Islam, the term “compatibility” is much more common. Muslims will find a mate based on their compatibility, as their parents will do the searching for them. This means that romance will not blind the decision of the youth in question, and instead a logical decision will be made as to who they shall marry.
But dating isn’t totally against the Muslim community, especially with the modern Muslims wanting change in the system they wish to modify. Some types of dating are allowed where they would otherwise be forbidden. Lenient Muslims, most usually American Muslims, may even disregard the rules and engage in some types of dating anyways.
Still other Muslims will commonly practice Muslim traditions on holidays, while still obeying other Muslim laws that do not pertain to dating. This is considered unlawful, however, but it is becoming more common in American Muslims who have already been proven to be more lenient to western civilization.
The most popular form of dating that has become available to the Muslim communities is Halal dating. Halal dating is a form of dating that involves an introduction between friends or family members. The two parties involved will make phone calls or conduct Internet conversations to get to know each other better on a one to one level.
Halal dating will sometimes allow Muslims to go out on actual dates. This can be considered taboo, however, as strict Muslims will not allow real dates to take place. Other Muslims allow the dates, but demand that escorts be present to ensure the couple does not disobey and Muslim practice.
Because of the upbringing of this new form of dating, there have been a large number of social networking websites available for Muslims in particular. These dating websites allow Muslims to connect much as previously described, and the best part is that it is permissive by Islam. Although for strict Muslims, this form of dating may not be allowed and should not be practiced without the consent of one’s parents- so as to not start any arguments or violate any laws parents may have set in stone.
In the end, there are many rules and regulations to consider when a Muslim wishes to find a mate. In particular, a mate will often take long periods of time in order to finalize any marriage contracts. But while this holds true for strict Muslim families, others that are more lenient will indeed welcome acts such as Internet dating, in which case Muslim youth can enjoy the wonderful advances in technology that enable hybrid forms of dating.
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