Online Dating Tips - Asking The Right Questions

When you meet a woman in the real world and talk to her, you can generally pick up clues as to the type of person that she is from her personality, body language, etc. But online it can be a completely different ball game, as you’ve only got the words on the screen to gauge her by. The best online dating tip is to ask lots of relevant questions to screen the potential of the woman, before you ever get on the phone or meet in person.

Before we start… why is it important to ask the right questions and to "screen" all potential dates? Well if you don’t, you’ll be wasting your time and money on lots of useless dates that will go absolutely nowhere, when you could have been screening and meeting women more suited to you. This tip will save you a lot of frustration and hassles.

When chatting with a woman online, you want to find out her views on men in general. Some women believe that most men are liars, cheats and that there aren’t any "good guys" left. If they carry this belief into a relationship it could make things rather difficult. So a good question to ask is, "What are the biggest mistakes guys make dating?" Quite a few women will "spill their guts" and tell you what they really think. This lets you know when to move on.

You can also fire some short, fun questions that can also check compatibility. Here are just a few…

5 star resort or camping?
Paris or New York?
Laying on a beach or white-water rafting?
Night club or live rock concert?
Pizza or fine restaurant?

You get the idea… just come up with a few questions of your own and then use them in emails to women.

It’s easy to see that if you follow these online dating tips, you will avoid a lot of pain and suffering in the future. The aim here is quality, not quantity.

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