Why Are Men So Territorial?

May 31, 2008

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I’ve been receiving a lot of questions that readers would like me to answer, so I’ve decided to keep their identities concealed and address the questions in this forum… Maybe others are having the same issues.

 

Why are guys territorial when it comes to you even though you aren’t if you are in a situation where a man in your life is territorial when it comes to you and you are not together, it’s because he wants the two of you to be together.  Most, if not all, of the male friends that you have are your friends because that is the role you selected for the relationship.  When a man is romantically interested in you, things can go one of a few different ways.

• He lets you know right off of his interest and
  • you feel the same way and you begin to date; or
  • you let him know that you’re not interested and he leaves you alone; or
  • you’re not interested so he shifts gears and switches to being the friend just to have you in his the cases where you never knew of his interest and you’ve just always been friends, either
    • He has realized that he’s not your type.  So he never tells you of his feelings, excepts his role as your friend and hopes that one day things will change; or
    • You have a man so he excepts being your friend, bides his time and waits for that opening that will allow him to be more that just your of these situations apply to you, the point is that he probably wants more.  Emotions are difficult to control.  Even though he may not be verbally sharing his feelings with you, he’s letting you know (maybe unconsciously) that he cares for you by being territorial.

      If you have a question you would like me to address, send me an email at Ms.Mtwo@yahoo.com.

      Only Love, ~M2