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by Antonio MacGynn
A rebound relationship keeps people from dealing with the emotions of breaking up with someone they truly love. Is your ex partner in a rebound relationship? If so, it means they are having a hard time getting over you.
And thats the key to getting your ex back. Shes in a rebound relationship to deal with losing you. It does not matter why she lost you. It doesnt matter if it is your fault or hers. It doesnt even matter who actually called the relationship off. What matters is that you have a real love. Because virtually all relationships founded on real love can be saved.
If shes in a rebound relationship, she will be focusing on what is wrong with your relationship. If you were a good guy shell probably be hanging out with a bad boy. If you were into philosophy, hell be watching Monday Night Football. Or, vice versa. The fact that she is focusing on the differences in your styles is actually good for two reasons: Her attention is still focused on you even when shes a the new guy, and, it gives you a chance to see what shes looking for.
Since your ex is in a relationship with someone that is much different than you, it means they are searching for something they missed. Use the time you have to improve yourself. As they spend more time with their new partner, it will become obvious that they miss things that originally attracted them to you. After a short time with the new partner, you will start looking pretty good.
Let her develop the idea that she misses the good things in the relationship. When shes ready to make a move, be magnanimous. Welcome her back graciously. Be a new and improved boyfriend, but dont do the chasing. Here are some specific steps to take when your ex is in a rebound relationship:
Dont try to convince her that you are the love of her life. Let her discover this on her own.
Dont apologize profusely. If you did something wrong, you can say youre sorry. But then move on. She knows the real reason she loves you.
Dont make promises to change. You are who you are and thats who she fell in love with.
Dont apologize profusely. If you did something wrong, you can say youre sorry. But then move on. She knows the real reason she loves you.
Never, ever beg her to take you back.
When you ex starts going out with someone just after you break up, shes in a rebound relationship. You can make up with her and get back together. Dont despair. The rebound relationship is a sign that shes still in love with you.
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