Avoiding Someone You Like

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I wrote on How to Avoid Someone You Don’t Want to Avoid sometimes back. Central to this urge of avoiding someone is the need - the objective - the reason : Why does Someone Want to Avoid Someone he/ she likes? What is the motivation? Why don’t you go all out and get the person you want? Is there a hidden fear of rejection? If yes, why is this fear there? Is it because you do not value yourself, suffer from poor self esteem or there is a rot much deeper in your personality that you can not quite comprehend yourself. You convince yourself that you don’t deserve this and you are not worthy of Love. Why would someone believe something like this? Is it because they have seen a history of guilt, denial and receiving - or they have never had an opportunity to experience unconditional love? Or, they have never had a chance to give something selflessely themselves?