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Dear Miss A,
I met this guy at a house party over the holidays, and we’re supposed to go out this weekend. Sound good, right? The bad part is that I can’t get psyched up for the date at ALL!!!! When he asked me out I was excited, but now I have mixed feelings about it. I’ve been trying to come up with a good excuse to get out of it. Problem is he went to college with one of my friends from work, and I’ll know she’ll be really mad if I blow it off. What should I do?
Dating Dread
Dear Dating Dread,
Deep down I think you know you have to go on the date. Think of it more as going out with a potential new friend if that helps you get through it. Honestly, I have gone through this very same thing myself. As a matter of fact, I nearly cancelled a first date with a guy I ended up dating for over a year. So had I not forced myself (or if my best friend hadn’t convinced me to just do it) I would have missed out on a great guy with whom I had a lot of good times. So just force yourself to go. You don’t have to make an entire night of it, as a matter of fact I don’t ever advise you to make an entire night of a first date. I think spending 3 hours is perfect. Make him ask you out again, if he wants more time with you.
Hang in there and let me know how it goes!
- Miss A
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