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by Marc Sandford
Knowing how to be romantic is a very powerful skill when it comes to keeping your partner’s interest. One very common complaint that many women have about their boyfriends or husbands is that they aren’t romantic enough. Maybe it’s time to give them what they want.
Being romantic will not only impress your partner but it does a lot of good for your relationship. It can also be very enjoyable. Try out some of these pointers:
1.) This one involves some work but it will impress her, write out a love poem and break it into different parts. Place each part of your poem on a separate web page and link up the pages. Be sure that you include some romantic images on each page.
There are a lot of sites that will allow you to create a Free web page on their site. Most will have very easy editors allowing quick and easy web page creation.
As of the writing of this article, there are 74,500,000 search results in Google for the search term “create Free web page”. An easier variation is to place the entire poem on one page.
2.) When you are arguing with your partner, do not use these two words: “never” and “always”. Most people like to use those two words when they are angry to reinforce their point of view even though it isn’t true.
Although this is a normal thing to do, your partner will find this sort of exaggeration very hurtful. None of us ever just “always” does something or “never” does another thing.
3.) When you are engaged in an argument, apologize quickly for any hard or mean words on your part. Don’t assume that it’ll be quickly forgotten. Many of our longest memories are of events that are filled with emotion. Her memories of you should be pleasant, not poisoned by a lot of hurtful things.
4.) It’s not unusual for men to go back to their old bachelor habits when the relationship progresses beyond its initial stage. A habit that annoys most women is not leaving the toilet seat down. Another is to behave like she were a guy. Always be mindful that she is a woman who should be treated as a lover.
5.) Give it your best when you’re doing any gift wrapping for her. The fancier the job, the more she will appreciate it. This includes expensive wrapping paper, a card and lots of ribbons. It’s never a good idea to give a gift that hasn’t been wrapped.
6.) It’s normal to respond with “nothing” or “nothing much” when asked what our thoughts are. When your partner enquires about this, she wants to know what you’re feeling at the moment. It would feel like you’re shutting her out if your response was: “nothing”.
So tell her what you were thinking or if your mind really was in a blank state, then say that she was in your thoughts. Tell her how gorgeous she is.
If you’re just starting to give this romance “stuff” a try, remember that the more silly or impractical the gesture, the more romantic. The standard romantic methods of expression will certainly do the job. But it won’t hurt to use your imagination some. You’ll discover that that is when it becomes a lot of fun.
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