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by Chaszey Sandhriel
There are a couple of ways of learning how to be a player: 1. get pre-selected and 2. prevent her from looking at you as “just a friend”. There is a huge difference between being “just a friend” and being her boyfriend, let’s delineate that right now. Getting pre-selected is easier to do than preventing her from seeing you as just a friend, let’s look at the more difficult method first.
How to be a player by being her boyfriend, not her friend?
Sure, many sources will tell you that knowing how to be a player could mean flirting with just about anyone and sleeping with everyone, even your female pals. Sleeping with a friend, however, is like scratching a temporary itch, while sleeping with a boyfriend means to fall deeply in love with him by making love.
You may be one of those guys that don’t care about what women think, feeling relieved that having girls as friends to sleep with when you feel antsy may be a temporary fix, but what if your girl pal suddenly falls in love with another guy? Where will you stand then?
Do you see the problem?
You can never be too sure that your girl pal will want you for a boyfriend, and the worst part is that if you are really close to her, she will get it immediately that you are learning how to be a player and she might not take you seriously at all.
Anyway, if you’re turning into a real player after you have gone through all the tips on how to be a player, why would you want to risk your close friendship with your best female pals? The risk is that if they are falling in love with you and yet you are unwilling to commit, you will have lost not only a girlfriend but also a real close friend.
The road to being a boyfriend is straightforward, and if you turn into one through your friendship, there’s a big chance that you can never go back to being “just friends”. And for all you know, you may never be able to get out of the friend zone and be stuck here forever (this is the case with “guy best friends” all of the time).
Your best move at making it as a player is to be honest with your female counterparts. Tell them honestly that you are open to a relationship in the distant future, but not right now. If she’s not okay with that, she can still be your friend and can possibly even help you with the next moves of learning how to be a player social proofing.
Have your gal pal introduce you to other women as her “ex” so that the girls you will meet can be alerted to your value. The fact that you have become the boyfriend of an attractive woman and that you are now separated amicably means you are one hell of a cool guy. This social proofing technique is almost fool proof and I’m sure you can see why. Your value increases, and so girls would want to date you.
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